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Exam stress and anxiety

For many children and young people, this time of year exams play integral part of their lives. However, in light of this, so does the stress of exams becomes increasingly heightened, amid young people’s fears of letting their parents and teachers down. This evokes stress and anxiety for which many young people conceal and find alternative ways of attempting to deal and cope with pressures of exams. There has been alarming rates reported of young people contacting helplines and having to deal with such pressures alone and comparing themselves to other people’s successes through social media.

In my last post I celebrated just how encouraging it was to see and hear so many media campaigns surrounding mental health for young people. I believe that schools, colleges, and University’s need to continue to provide services and accessible pathways for children and young people to explore and find healthier ways of dealing and coping with exam stresses. With this in mind, counselling for me provides children and young people with opportunity to share and open up to someone trustworthy and genuine, and be able to communicate their emotions, in a safe space.

I had a curiosity about children’s experiences of accessing emotional support. So in a recent study I wanted to gain children’s experiences and whether they felt any stigma was attached to seeking emotional support. I personally have benefited from accessing emotional support, despite getting messages and being influenced by friends, TV, and media that it’s not okay and it’s not very manly to express how you feel. I wanted to know what would encourage more boys to access emotional support.

At the start of my study 4 school aged male participants were selected from an inner city school in London. I stated that I was going to explore boy’s experiences and help seeking attitudes, which I feel still remains a barrier for boys. I felt I succeeded in gaining some understanding about the barriers, along the strains and turmoil for which many children feel they are alone and have to deal with issues by themselves. However, with the aid of charities and counselling organisations working specifically in schools, colleges and universities it offers pathways for children and young people to access emotional support when issues arise and reduces any stigma attached to seeking help, which clearly is a significant factor in many boys not seeking support. The continued progression into such pathways will further develop a much brighter outlook and perception upon seeking help, especially in light of young people’s exam stresses. This affirms much of what is already known about the counselling process, and can appreciate the rich experiences these sessions elicit for children and young people experiencing exam stresses.

There is still more to be done and further qualitative research would assist to generate a wider insight into young people’s views and opinions to inform future qualitative research, and thus validate services as a valuable and useful intervention in improving the mental health for children and young people seeking help and support in schools, colleges and Universities.

Useful websites and helplines:

Samaritans offers a listens service which is open 24 hours a day

Mind: Monday to Friday, 9am-6pm on 0300 123 3393

Get connected: is a free advice service for people under 25. Call 0808 808 4994


You gave me the space to get a lot of my shoulders and didn’t judge me. I was depressed and feeling low for a long time. I had suicidal thoughts which stopped me from going to college and living my life. You helped me so much to understand and work through my anxieties. Thank you Hugh.

Female, 18, London

All my gratitude

I came to Hugh having low expectations of what counselling do for me, but Hugh was welcoming and understanding from the first session. The sessions became the highlight of my week and I would emerge feeling like a huge weight had been lifted and feel positivity and hope. Hugh gave me the power to view things from a different perspective and has helped me enjoy the good things in life again. Even though this chapter has been resolved, I would not hesitate to reach out to Hugh again should anything change in the future. Thank you for all your help!

Female, 25, South London
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